Reader Question:

Should i’ve a primary day before Valentine’s Day following a moment date on valentine’s? Or ought I wait until valentine’s to set up a primary big date?

-Derek (California)

Dr. Wendy Walsh’s Response:

Dear Derek,

Romantic days celebration is actually sorts of a “Hallmark Holiday” in which everyone is forced to express really love. In my opinion it could add lots of unnecessary stress to an initial go out.

I am talking about, you do not know any time you really such as the girl, aside from love her. Therefore getting away with a lot of lovebird couples might force one to do the exact same when you’re ready.

I would say ignore Valentines Day. If she actually is really great, you two can commemorate it the following year.

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